Thrill of the hunt
You like the chase. No matter how you try to convince us otherwise, you like it. You thrive on it. If you didn’t, when we make ourselves available to you, you wouldn’t lose interest in us. We tell you no; you try to figure out how to get us to say yes. Yes to a date; yes to a kiss; yes to it all. Why? Because you have the need to feel like you are in control; like you ‘won’.
You say you don’t want to play games; you say you want us to just tell you what you want, to be straightforward. But you don’t really. You are as traditional as we are. You want to chase, and we want to be chased. That’s right; we like it when you chase us. We get a little thrill out of telling you no, just to see if you will come back and try a little harder. We want to see if you are serious about what you want. Are you motivated enough to work a little for what you want? Because we are worth it, and we know we are worth it. But the question is: do you know it? You aren’t going to tell us; and to be honest, if you did, we’d probably think it was game anyway. Oh sure, you can fake showing it. But you can only keep it up for so long. We’ll let you chase us a little bit, just to see if you will.
It can be dangerous on either side. You may be chasing with bad intentions. We may just be stringing you along. That doesn’t last very long though. Someone will wise up or someone will get bored if the chase isn’t going as they intended. There will be an equal balance in a ‘true’ chase. You’ll pursue, we’ll give in just a little, but keep you chasing after more. In time, you will catch us. By then, we’ll realize we should be chasing something together.
the part about playing games…..playing games leads to people getting hurt and things going in bad directions…be careful with that…..
traditional…how many men do you know today that are “traditional?”
If they don’t have traditional values, they aren’t for me.
Comment by furious.styles — June 21, 2006 @ 5:51 am